Milwaukee, Wis. – Celebrating Grandparent’s Day on Sunday, September 12? Since older adults are often targeted by con artists, one of the best ways to honor an older friend or family member is to protect them from scammers. BBB recommends people know and are able to recognize the following signs of abuse and impending fraud, so that they can help their older friends, family, clients, or patients avoid becoming a victim.
Warning signs that fraud may occur:
- Frequent junk mail and spam calls. Incoming junk mail (illegitimate sweepstakes offers, etc.) or receiving frequent calls from people offering valuable rewards or asking for charitable donations are signs that fraud could easily occur, or may have already occurred.
- Unfamiliar payments are being made. Checks written or payments made to unfamiliar or out-of-state companies should be a red flag.
- Acting secretively about phone calls or messages. When an individual hides or acts secretively about phone calls and messages, it could be a sign that they have engaged a scammer.
- Sudden problems paying bills or buying food and other necessities. A sudden lack of funds could mean that an individual’s money is being drained in some form of scam activity. The cause should be investigated to rule out fraud.
Tips for helping your loved one avoid fraud:
- Become familiar with common scams targeting older adults. Knowing the most common tactics used to target older adults can help you more easily identify when scams occur.
- Emphasize the criminal nature of telemarketing and email fraud. Help your loved one learn how to identify it and help them understand that these tactics are illegal. In participating, it is possible they could be pulled into criminal activity unknowingly.
- Encourage the person to ignore phone calls and messages that appear suspicious. Don’t reply to, or click links within, emails or text messages that they are not familiar with.
- Have a calm discussion about securing accounts and monitoring finances. Helping older adults monitor their finances can be a great way to prevent scam activity and identify fraud if it has occurred.
- Help the person change his or her phone number. If constant calls continue, it may be worth changing the person’s phone number. Registering the number with the Do Not Call list is a great first step, although scammers won’t necessarily follow the Do-Not-Call list laws. If unsafe calls continue, it may be best to change the phone number.
Recognizing abuse against older adults:
The International Network for the Prevention of Elder Abuse (INPEA) designated June 15, as World Elder Abuse Awareness Day (WEAAD). Since then, various organizations, including BBB, have come together to help provide resources, raise awareness and prevent abuse against older adults.
The most common types of abuse are physical, emotional, financial, and verbal. The National Council on Aging says up to five million older Americans are abused every year, and the annual loss by victims of financial abuse is estimated to be at least $36.5 billion.
BBB recommends that family, friends, and caregivers learn the signs of abuse or neglect in older adults. Business owners dealing in the industry can share these signs with employees.
Signs of neglect:
- Lack of basic hygiene, adequate food, or clean and appropriate clothing. When basic needs are not being met for an individual in the care of another, neglect should be suspected.
- Missing medical aids or skipped doctor’s appointments. Medical aids (glasses, walkers, hearing aids, medications)and regular visits with physicians are critical to a healthy and active life for older adults. If these things are absent or being ignored, it could be a sign of neglect.
- The person is often unsupervised. It is necessary for caregivers to supervise their patient or loved one, especially if the person requires additional assistance because of dementia or other disorders. The level of supervision may vary depending on the needs of the person in care but in all cases, a lack of supervision could be a sign of neglect.
- The person is confined to a bed without regular care. Adults under medical or family supervision should have assistance to get out of bed and move around. Being confined to a bed can be detrimental to physical and mental health and is a sign of improper care. If an individual is bed-bound, they should still be repositioned and cleaned regularly.
- The home is overly cluttered, in disrepair, or fire and safety hazards are present. An unsafe home can be a sign of neglect and should be addressed due to safety hazards. Caregivers are tasked, in part, with creating a safe and healthy living environment.
- A home without adequate facilities (stove, refrigerator, heating, cooling, plumbing, and electric). Everyone, no matter their age, requires basic access to utilities and a temperate environment. If these facilities are missing, it could be a sign of neglect or that the person needs additional care and assistance.
- An untreated pressure sore (bed sores). Bed sores can happen as older adults become more immobile but they are preventable with the proper care. Untreated sores are a sure sign that a person is not being cared for properly.
Signs of financial abuse or exploitation:
- Lack of amenities the person could normally afford. A sudden problem with affording the basics, especially if the person was able to in the past (with no change in income) is a sign of financial abuse or exploitation. This could be at the hands of a family member, caregiver, or con artist.
- Giving excessive financial reimbursement or gifts for care and companionship. Care and companionship are necessary and can take a financial toll occasionally. But if care costs are draining an individual’s bank account, it’s time to investigate and re-assess.
- The caregiver controls the person’s money but fails to provide for their needs. A sure sign of financial exploitation is when a caregiver fails to provide adequate supplies, food, clothing, or other necessities to an older person.
- The caregiver is overly concerned about the person spending money. Caregivers should be concerned with an individual’s spending habits if it is damaging to their health or well-being but normal daily spending should not be of concern to a caregiver.
- Unexpected or unexplainable property transfers such as a power of attorney or a new will. These can be especially concerning when the person in care is unable to comprehend the transaction or what it means. When in doubt, family and friends should look into these transactions carefully.
Signs of psychological and emotional abuse:
- Unexplained or uncharacteristic changes in behavior. A drastic change in demeanor or a withdrawal from normal activities is a red flag that abuse may be present.
- Unexplained weight loss or appetite changes. If no other cause can be found by medical professionals, it may be worth investigating if abuse is the cause for a sudden change in weight or appetite.
- The caregiver isolates the person from others. A caregiver should always be willing to help older individuals visit their loved ones and medical professionals.
- The caregiver is verbally aggressive, uncaring, or demeaning. Older adults deserve genuine care and compassion. Rude, dismissive, or aggressive behavior from a caretaker should be a red flag for the potential of abuse.
Signs of physical abuse:
- Inadequately explained fractures, bruises, welts, cuts, sores, or burns. Frequent and unexplained injuries are concerning, especially if the individual under care is unable to recall daily events with ease.
- Unexplained sexually transmitted diseases. STD’s and STI’s in older adults under professional care could be a sign of sexual abuse and warrant an investigation to find the root cause.
Additional resources for older adults and their loved ones
Resources for US-based consumers and business owners
Report a scam to BBBFor more information or further inquiries, contact the Wisconsin BBB at www.bbb.org/wisconsin, 414-847-6000 or 1-800-273-1002. Consumers also can find more information about how to protect themselves from scams by following the Wisconsin BBB on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and YouTube.
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